What do you do when a family member uses your credit card?
Sophia Koch
Updated on February 11, 2026
Contact your issuer. If your family member refuses to pay you back, you should report the incident to your credit card company. You’ll need to file a dispute, and once the company investigates the situation, they will issue you a refund if they agree with your claim.
What should you do if your child steals?
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- Use disapproval.
- Talk with your child.
- Talk about values and ethics.
- Have the child make restitution, helping her if you need to.
- Tell your child that you are watching her behavior, that she has lost some trust, and that she needs to re-earn it.
- Assess the situation.
Can family member use my credit card?
You can use someone else’s credit card if they let you. But if they don’t give you permission, it’s fraud – and that is a crime. The issuer only authorized the person who got approved for the card to access its credit line. So even using someone else’s card with permission is a violation of that card’s terms.
What happens if you use someone else credit card?
Using someone else’s credit card without their permission may be a quick way to get your hands on some much-needed cash or treat yourself to something you otherwise couldn’t afford, but it may cost you hefty fines and even land you in jail.
What to do if your child steals your credit card?
When Your Child Uses Your Credit Card I’ve talked with many parents whose kids have used their credit card to buy something online. Often, they’ve used it for gaming. Even if the money is gone and cannot be retrieved, don’t let your child off the hook. They can make amends by doing something extra around the house to work it off.
What to do if someone stole your child’s identity?
If you’re concerned that someone may have stolen your child’s identity, check the three major credit reporting agencies – Experian, Equifax and TransUnion – to see if the child has a credit file. If a credit file exists, ask for a search of that file, then carefully take note of what turns up.
What to do if your credit card Number is stolen?
If you suspect your credit card number has been stolen, report it immediately to your credit card company. They will typically close the account, investigate the reported charges and issue you a new credit card.
How can I tell if my child is using my credit card?
Set up credit card alerts that are synced with all video games a child is playing. In many cases, the appropriate merchant category code is 7994. This way, every transaction related to a game will be flagged for approval, and a parent will be immediately notified.